The Story Behind the Numbers

Metrics tell us what happened. The people closest to the work can help us understand why. Have you ever walked into a place where everyone else seemed to know the routine, yet you felt like you had somehow missed the orientation? Being the new person has a funny way of helping you notice what everyone … Read more

Creating experiences and opportunities for other people.

One of my favorite things about Dolly Parton was that she never seemed to apologize for taking up space. Last week, we lost Dolly Parton. And it feels strange to write that sentence. Dolly was many things. Singer. Songwriter. Actress. Businesswoman. Philanthropist. Rhinestone enthusiast. Purveyor of homespun wisdom and one-liners that could make you laugh … Read more

Nothing Has Gone Wrong

There will always be more work than time. Summer is winding down at our house. The back-to-school clothes have been purchased. Somehow, my son is now wearing a men’s medium, which I’m still trying to wrap my head around. School supplies have been gathered, and my daughter is especially excited about her new pencil case. … Read more

Have people always been this impatient? Has everyone gotten a little more cranky?

Lately, I’ve been wondering how many relational paper cuts we experience in our interactions. Paper cuts are the worst. They’re tiny. You can barely see them. Yet somehow, they hurt ten times more than they should. Lately, I’ve been wondering how many relational paper cuts we experience in our interactions. The little, ordinary moments: None … Read more

Life has plenty of main quests already. Work. Laundry. Work. Practices. Work. Appointments. Responsibilities.

Maybe life doesn’t need a full vacation. Maybe it just needs one small side quest. Last week I wrote about liking things. And while there are certainly parts of life (lots of daily life) that aren’t exactly enjoyable, I’m becoming more convinced that liking things, enjoying things, and creating little moments worth looking forward to … Read more

I stopped asking, “How are things going?” and started asking a different question:

Generic questions tend to produce generic answers. How are you? It’s one of the most common questions we ask. “How are you?” Most of the time, we don’t even think about it. It’s an automatic greeting. The responses are just as automatic. “I’m good.” “I’m fine.” “Busy.” “Same old, same old.” It’s a great way … Read more