Life has plenty of main quests already. Work. Laundry. Work. Practices. Work. Appointments. Responsibilities.

Maybe life doesn’t need a full vacation. Maybe it just needs one small side quest. Last week I wrote about liking things. And while there are certainly parts of life (lots of daily life) that aren’t exactly enjoyable, I’m becoming more convinced that liking things, enjoying things, and creating little moments worth looking forward to … Read more

I stopped asking, “How are things going?” and started asking a different question:

Generic questions tend to produce generic answers. How are you? It’s one of the most common questions we ask. “How are you?” Most of the time, we don’t even think about it. It’s an automatic greeting. The responses are just as automatic. “I’m good.” “I’m fine.” “Busy.” “Same old, same old.” It’s a great way … Read more

The pathways we keep paving in our brains

Repetition doesn’t just create habits. It creates routes. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about pathways. Not the kind made of concrete or gravel (even though the weather has started to turn nice and I’m walking on those paths more lately), but the ones we create in our minds and bodies through repetition. Because repetition … Read more

The Leadership Hangover

No, it’s not about cocktails. It’s about feeling exhausted after the “thing” Have you ever felt exhausted after the “thing”?After a big meeting, a decision, or a push to get something across the finish line? It almost feels like a hangover…or like all the wind just drained out of your sails. I’ve started calling it … Read more