Kelly Holding

Hi, Lately, I’ve noticed a theme popping up—in coaching calls, in conversations with friends, and even in my own moments. It seems like a lot of us are carrying a mix of “this is fine” and “something needs to shift.” Maybe it’s a role, a routine, or a rhythm that just isn’t working anymore. And … Read more

Hey there, Ever find yourself in a season where everything feels just a little… heavier? The schedule’s tighter, the to-dos are louder, and the margin for enjoyment or connection feels slimmer than it used to. You’re not alone. Whether it’s leading a team or trying to manage life stuff behind the scenes, we all carry … Read more

Hey there, Chasing achievement can be addicting. Sometimes, it fuels the fire; other times, it burns us out. And as life moves along, things shift. What once felt like the ultimate goal can suddenly feel less urgent, and priorities that used to be non-negotiable start to evolve. Priorities change, energy fluctuates, and sometimes, sanity feels … Read more

Hey there, When I was little, I had chronic ear infections. We’re talking full-on swim band over earplugs, Halloween-costume-with-earmuffs level protection. If water got in, I got sick. Simple as that. But even when I stayed dry, sometimes my ears would feel plugged—like I was only catching half the world around me. And that? That … Read more

There’s a moment—whether you’re stepping into a new job or a new room—where everything feels uncertain.Will I fit in?Will I figure this out?Will this be worth it? I’ve been thinking about that moment a lot lately—both as a leader and just… as a person trying to do life well. This week’s newsletter touches on both. … Read more

Hi there, I’ve been in several conversations lately—both in coaching sessions and casual chats—where the same themes keep popping up: people feeling overwhelmed, leaders unsure how much to step in, and teams trying to do it all without burning out. It got me thinking about how much of our work isn’t just about making sure … Read more

Hey there, Ever walked into a room and instantly felt the energy shift? Maybe it was tension so thick you could cut it with a knife—or, on the flip side, laughter that made everything feel lighter. That’s the ripple effect in action. Ever noticed how one person’s energy can change an entire room? You bring … Read more

Hey there, Ever feel like life would be easier if people just did what you said? No pushback, no questions—just action. Tempting, right? Imagine your boss, your teammates, your spouse, your kids, your extended family… Imagine if they all just fell in line. No resistance. No negotiating. Just execution. Ahhh, that would be refreshing. But … Read more

Hey there, Have you ever noticed how pressure sneaks into our lives in quiet, sneaky ways—and then suddenly, it’s everywhere? It shows up in deadlines, expectations, and even faulty plumbing (more on that below). This week I’ve been sitting with that feeling: how pressure can either spark momentum or completely shut us down. Whether you’re … Read more

Hey there, Ever watch a juggler? They don’t hold onto every ball at once—they focus on what’s in front of them, lean into the rhythm, and keep things moving. Leadership: The Metrics & Morale Juggle Leading a team isn’t about touching every ball at the same time—it’s about knowing which one needs your focus in … Read more